If you’re like me, the usual Valentine’s Day plans might just bore you. I’m all about thinking outside the box and ditching tradition, so I thought, why not mix things up this year? While some people see Valentine’s as just a capitalist scheme to make us spend more, I know deep down we’re all lovers of love. That’s why I’ve put together 5 unique Valentine’s Day plans that go beyond the typical dinner-and-a-movie date.
These ideas are as versatile as they are fun—some are perfect for staying in, others for getting out. Whether you’re planning a solo or couple’s celebration, these options will bring joy, connection, and maybe even a little adventure!
5 Unique Valentine’s Day Plans
1. Create a Couples Vision Board
The start of the year is the perfect time for vision boards. If you’ve already made one for yourself, why not take it a step further and create one with your partner this Valentine’s? Thinking about shared goals, dreams, and priorities for the future can be a surprisingly rewarding activity for your relationship.
Not only will this give you a chance to reflect on where you both want to go in 2025, but it’s also a fun and creative way to bond. You can even turn it into a game: pick a topic, write a quote, or find an image to represent your shared vision. The benefits? Clarity, motivation, and a deeper connection as a couple.
And hey, if you haven’t done your own Vision Board for the year, we’ve got you covered with a guide and tips right here on The Better Normal. Check it out here!
2. Volunteer Together
Why not turn your Valentine’s Day into a day of giving? Volunteering not only helps those in need, but it can also leave you feeling more connected and grateful. When we step out of our own world and into someone else’s, we are reminded of what truly matters.
According to the London School of Economics, volunteering can actually make us happier! Studies show that the more people volunteer, the happier they tend to be. So, why not make it a point to give back together this Valentine’s?
Volunteering offers so many benefits, like connecting with others, discovering different realities, and giving love to those who need it most. Plus, it’s a chance to appreciate all you have and contribute to the world in a meaningful way. I personally do some volunteer work and really enjoy it, especially when my partner joins me. So, don’t hesitate—sign up and give it a try. You’ll love it!
3. Hit The Road
Not planning a big trip? No problem! Sometimes the best adventures are the ones closest to home. Pick a small town nearby, grab a car, and go. Explore a new place, try new food, and escape your routine for a day. Visit a local museum, relax in a park, and just enjoy each other’s company without the usual distractions.
I love spontaneous weekend trips with my partner. Here’s my list of essentials for a fun road trip:
- Don’t forget the speaker! Life’s just better with music.
- Pack a simple picnic—nothing fancy, just a chance to enjoy each other’s company in a new spot.
- Comfortable shoes are a must if you plan on walking around and exploring.
- Leave work and obligations behind—use this day to focus on each other and let the conversation flow.
4. Adventure Time!
Are you ready to step up your adventure game this Valentine’s? Whether you consider yourself an adrenaline junkie or someone who’s just looking to try something new, make this Valentine’s about stepping out of your comfort zone.
Here are some ideas for a truly adventurous Valentine’s Day:
- Go paragliding and feel the rush.
- Take a short flight in a small plane—talk about an unforgettable experience.
- Go for a hike in the mountains or local trails.
- Hit the slopes for a fun ski day!
Adventure is the perfect way to make memories, try something new, and share experiences that bring you closer together.
5. Staycation in a Boutique Hotel
Sometimes, the best way to celebrate love is by simply relaxing. Society’s constant push for productivity often leaves us feeling overwhelmed, so why not take a break from the hustle and focus entirely on each other? A staycation at a boutique hotel is the perfect way to unwind, indulge, and enjoy each other’s company.
This Valentine’s Day, take a weekend to just be. No schedules, no commitments—just time to recharge and focus on what matters most. Pro tip: Grab a nice bottle of wine, play some thought-provoking games, and let the conversation flow. You’ll be amazed at the conversations you didn’t even know you needed to have.
And… Happy Valentine’s Day to you all! Enjoy, rest, and love.
