Hey Jamie Rose!

I want to start using sex toys vaginally. How do I know what size is right for me?

– Jasmine F


Hello Jasmine!

That is such a good question! When looking at dildos and different sex toys, size can be so intimidating! Size does vary from body to body, but if you aren’t quite sure where to start, I recommend starting smaller and then going bigger! Some sex shops sell kits that start small and get larger – they are often called dilator kits. But those can be a little bit pricier. If you are working with a budget, I would suggest looking for dildos that are 4.75-5 inches in length and 1 inch in diameter. These are less intimidating, and you can get a sense if it is too much for you or if you want more! When you go shopping for your first dildo or vibrator, you don’t have to go for the biggest one. It’s okay to be comfortable with a smaller size, your pleasure always comes first.

With Pleasure,


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